Wednesday, 10 February 2021

Body Shaming ain't fun.

Are you a person who is insecure about body shaming? Have you ever experienced that whole day of depression of the same? Yes, body-shaming isn't enjoyable for all.

I was thinking long like should I generalize body shaming through my blog or should I share my experience? Generalizing easy! But how I will start sharing my experience, it is very small as a comet but hurt deep inside my heart.

I had so many bodies shaming in my childhood for being short and not fair. But seriously it doesn't affect me or I was so cool. Then I grew up. And after that, there had body shaming but wasn't bothering me. The two incidents recently, both happened while I am already in Premenstrual syndrome. It was for being fat, aged look, and the body structure. I was doubled with frustration. I haven't spoken or shouted because they meant (people) to me. But now feel a bit regret for that because they might have continued the same. Some people are under lifestyle disorder, people are trying to get slim, people are trying for a fit body, people are trying for that so-called fair skin, people are trying to get boobs, hardly coloring hairs, getting muscles, not smiling for being disordered teeth and there are so many battling for their physical appearance( it is completely their choice) so when someone insult for their body, it is bad. It is too awful.

And when I got those comments, I was falling into a pit because I never thought or imagined this stuff. I have always been visualizing that my whole life goes like what my heart does. I am a superpower lady who is hustling to the peak. Of a sudden, hearing their joke made me a night sleepless and unworthy. I cried I stab to my chair and continuously wrote I am insecure. I was asking myself that 'why I am so silly?', that was merely a joke. But got more frustrated for not reacting because should they repeat the same to others!


I have shared a little portion of body shaming, and this isn't new but let shall continue the discussion to save many. Those who have lost their life, name,  passion, attitude, sense, and for those who are still struggling. Let us stay stronger with our body as our hearts.

Me and you, let us not be involved in the body shamers even as pastime.

(P.S Vishnupriya, Nadirsha, and Anjana pump me that energy to wake up and shine.)

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